One reason some partners have sex early on in a relationship is because they want to know whether they’re sexually compatible. So when partners aren’t clicking in bed from the beginning, that’s often seen as a red flag.
Of course, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to establish sexual compatibility in the beginning stages of a relationship. And there can certainly be benefits to this, especially if it turns out that you have totally different, non-overlapping sexual interests. However, there’s a common mistake people often make when it comes to doing this, which is that they think once they’ve established compatibility, they’re good to go and compatible for life. In other words, if you start out having great, mind-blowing sex, you’re always going to have great, mind-blowing sex, right?
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